Capricorn - Astrology Aditi

I was having lunch with friends the other day and one of them remarked that her most attractive friends were all Capricorns. Others validated this with their own stories and we all marveled at the mystery of why Capricorns are so attractive. When I returned home, I decided to investigate this further. Is it really true or just a myth? On average, Capricorns have strong personality traits like ambition and confidence that give them an alluring appeal. They can be dominant while simultaneously loving in romantic relationships. And, their ability to commit makes them attractive to those looking for a loyal partner. Keep reading if you are curious to know more about what makes Capricorns so attractive? Let’s take an in-depth look at this interesting Earth sign. The Allure of Capricorns What attracts us to one another? Which traits are the most appealing? Is it a physical, mental, or emotional attraction that motivates us? Are we even aware of how deep attraction runs, or why attraction seems to happen instantly with some, yet not at all with others? Attraction can be a bit of a mystery. Although each person has their own personal preferences when it comes to what they find attractive, some traits are appreciated more than others. A panel of dating and relationship experts was asked to identify attractive qualities that are universally appealing to people. Contrary to what the advertising industry promotes to the public, none of the experts mentioned physical traits in the list below. [Source] TrustFriendlinessVulnerability without needinessHumility without embarrassmentConfidence without cockinessListening and showing genuine interest in othersHaving a sense of humorOptimism Of course, not every Capricorn is captivatingly alluring, and surely not all exhibit the above attributes in total. However, they do tend to be one of the more likable astrological signs. Capricorns are friendly and outgoing. However, getting the attention of a Capricorn is challenging. So, if and when you do catch their eye, it makes it that much more worthwhile. Additionally, there is an emotional boost that comes with being valued and appreciated. Capricorn’s Are Ambitious The ruling planet of Capricorn is Saturn, which is associated with seriousness, maturity, hard work, and dedication to responsibilities. One of the most alluring traits of Capricorn ascendants is their ambition. They are driven and focused on what they want. Capricorns are go-getters. Even on a subconscious level, their energetic passion attracts others. People want to be around them. The symbol for Capricorn is a mythical creature that is half goat and half fish called a sea-goat. Capricorn ascendants typically embody the goat side very well, as they are determined and somewhat stubborn. A driven person is admirable because it symbolizes hard work and dedication. Hard work results in success and security. A Capricorn arguably has the most ambition of all the zodiac signs. A possible downside of this is that they sometimes can become slaves to their ambition, to the point that they are willing to sacrifice anything to get what they want. Capricorns Are Full of Passion A romantic relationship with a Capricorn ascendant can be a passionate one if you succeed in making it to that stage. However, their passion tends to be more wrapped up in their unquenchable ambition than in romance. Capricorns tend to prioritize power over pleasure. They might be more interested in how you might enhance their professional or social standing than in having a good time with you. They definitely are not social butterflies and it is rare to find them circulating in a crowd just for enjoyment. Instead, they are much more passionate about engaging in activities that might bring them some tangible return. Ironically, Capricorn’s apparent disinterest in romance turns out to be one of the more alluring things about them. They present a challenge and people want to know how to get close to them. Tapping into the romantic side of a Capricorn’s passion takes the right person with the right approach. Above all, you need to be patient. Capricorn ascendants tend to take a cautious, slow-and-steady approach to relationships. They prefer to prolong the dating process so that they can know you thoroughly before committing to a romantic relationship. They have to be certain that you will not impede their professional aspirations in any way. While finding common ground can help Capricorn ascendants to relate to you and perhaps lead to further revelations, the quality that they value the most in a partner is an unrelenting drive and ambition that matches their own. Capricorns Have a Powerful Magnetic Energy The energy and presence of a Capricorn can be described as big, bold, and powerful. This type of energy attracts our attention because it is entertaining, exciting, and sparks something within ourselves that makes us curious to know them more. When I look into your eyes, an energy passes between us. A jolt that touches me deep in my soul. The feeling is so intense I can't move, I can't speak, I just gaze upon you in awe. The above verse, by poet Lita Aragón, captures feelings expressed by others about the strong magnetic energy that Capricorn ascendants possess and its influence on them. But Capricorn ascendants have an introverted side and typically are unaware of the effect that their magnetic attraction has on people. They tend to value achievement over the attention that might accompany it. The pragmatism that comes with being an Earth element often makes them overly self-conscious. Similar to Virgo, another Earth sign, Capricorns are easily embarrassed and will make strong attempts to dodge negative attention or humiliation. This can lead them to decide not to attend events or social gatherings out of concern that they somehow might be embarrassed. Capricorns Make Good Romantic Partners Although it might not seem like it at first glance, if you can find a way to work with their ambitious nature and not against it, Capricorn ascendants make very good romantic partners that are both devoted and loyal. Capricorns are down-to-earth and level-headed, although at times they also can be headstrong and stubborn. Capricorns are known for matching their partner’s enthusiasm and optimism. They tend to show people how they want to be loved by their actions. They are not needy or clingy partners and do not show an abundance of emotion. At times, this can lead others to believe that they do not care. But nothing could be further from the truth. Once they are committed to you, they care very deeply. Capricorn ascendants are amazing partners because they possess most of the top sought-after qualities in a mate listed above. However, they are not perfect. Without intentionally leading, a Capricorn often takes a dominant role in life and love. Not everyone wants their partner to be an Alpha. Dominating traits can make some feel safe, while others may see it as a turnoff. Capricorns Value Commitment It may be a challenge to crack through the tough exterior of a Capricorn. But if you do open their hearts, Capricorns are great in committed relationships. They mate for life. Commitment in itself can be enough to create an appealing aura—their committed character branches out from their relationships and their endeavors, such as their career and goals. Why is commitment such an attractive quality? Commitment is not easy, so if someone shows signs of the ability to commit, it evokes an involuntary response of attraction. This attraction can be friendly, flirty, or romantic. When a person (like a Capricorn) is committed, it shows a strong character trait that makes you feel safe to be in a relationship with them. It also evokes an organic trust in this person. And, as we all know, trust can be the difference between a good relationship and a bad one. A relationship without true commitment and trust can leave you feeling alone or stuck. No one wants to feel that way, which is why we are magnetically drawn to those that match our desires. Capricorns Are Homebodies If a steady and stable partner to start a family is what you are hoping for, a Capricorn ascendant could be a good match. Capricorns are family-oriented, and they value their relationships, which creates a loving home. Capricorns strive to build solid foundations in life; foundations that can weather the storms and continue to stand strong year after year. Their reliability means a lot to them. They work hard to provide for their family. A Capricorn parent can be strict but very loving. Their energy and drive bring excitement to family life. Capricorn parents are great influences on their children because of their strong work ethic and kindness. Capricorns Are Humble The endearing, humble side of a Capricorn is so attractive because they are usually quite serious and determined that it is touching to see that they are sensitive and down to earth. Although a Capricorn ascendant may have a history full of great accomplishments due to their drive and ambition, they rarely boast or brag about themselves. If you want to know about their success, you will have to ask them for details. A Word of Caution About Capricorn's Compatibility with Other Zodiac Signs As both Aditi Valdivia and I have noted in other articles, we tend to avoid making blanket statements about compatibility between the various zodiac signs. Why? Compatibility between two people is a complex multi-faceted thing. It doesn’t lend itself well to simple explanations, even though we may wish that it did. On top of that, anyone that is in a successful romantic relationship will tell you that it takes a lot of work. There is no way to cheat or escape this fact. While attraction can occur instantly (at least for some), compatibility between two people does not magically happen. It develops and grows over time. The plain truth is that the only way to know if you and someone else are compatible is to spend time with them. Once you have done this, your Vedic natal chart can provide insight on how you can work to nurture and improve the relationship or address problems as they arise. But to accept or reject a person based upon knowing their ascendant zodiac sign is both immature and unwise. Why? Knowing a person’s ascendant zodiac sign is merely a starting point. Let’s suppose that there are 100 people, each of which is a Capricorn ascendant. Although they all have this one thing in common, the Vedic natal chart for each person will be unique, which means that the planetary transits throughout the years will affect each of them in different ways. There simply is no way to accurately predict if you will be compatible with another person solely based upon their zodiac sign. Neil deGrasse Tyson As the area of our knowledge grows, so too does the perimeter of our ignorance.Neil deGrasse Tyson The above quote reminds us that we should approach astrology with a deep sense of humility. Final Thoughts We have explored what makes Capricorn ascendants attractive to others by examining general characteristics associated with them. This is not intended to suggest that Capricorn ascendants are more attractive than other zodiac signs or that all exhibit the qualities listed here. Indeed, two Capricorn ascendants might have diametrically opposite personalities. For this reason, your experience with one Capricorn should not prejudice you either toward or away from others. However, generally speaking, Capricorn ascendants tend to be attractive people that make good romantic partners or cherished friends. Once you have established these relationships and friendships, Vedic Astrology can help you to enhance them and to address any challenges you might face along the way. Acknowledgements Headline photo by Vlada Karpovich from PexelsMountain climber photo by Benjamin DaviesMan with baby photo by William Fortunato from Pexels